The Destination …Posted: July 28, 2008
I was talking to my Sister in Law the other day … Being the elder one, i was trying to be the “in the know” guy, dishing out pearls of wisdom, otherwise known as gyaan to anyone who liked to listen … So, i was asking her what she wants to do in her career. She has some ideas, and i was trying to encourage her to ask the standard questions … where do you want to see yourself ten years down the line?
When she was able to give me a vague answer to this one, i prodded on … little knowing i was prodding on to stuff even i didnt understand. So, i asked her where she sees herself twenty years down the line, and then thirty. And, then, at retirement. And then it struck me. Whats this all about? When we are in the rat race, is there a specific destination which we can achieve, and rest on it? Not at all. In fact, the destination for all is the same … departure. So, why run faster, when all of us are going to reach the same place? Rather, shouldnt we treat life just as a journey of sight-seeing, without any specific destination in mind? Not only would it remove a lot of heartburn, it would also help us see life for what she is … Beautiful!
Whereas today, we treat life basically as a set of events, tied up with a set of targets, which we achieve, and then move on to the next set of achievements. But, life is to be lived, isnt it? Whats the point of achieving life, when we fail to live it?